Thursday 16 July 2015

TEEN AGE PROBLEMS

GOOD DAY , IN LIFE THERE ARE COMING DRASTIC CHANGES ,WHICH WE DID NOT

EVER EXPECTED . THE LIFE IS BECOMING UN EASY DAY BY  DAY. AS BECAUSE OUR

TEEN AGE ESPECIALLY THE TEEN AGE YOUTH OF THE VILLAGE ARE MISGUIDED BY

TODAY'S WORLD'S INTERNET CHANGES , THEY KNOW HIE TO USE IT BUT YET THEY

DO NOT KNOW THAT HOW TO BE GUIDED BY IT ,


SOME WHERE OUR CITY KIDS ARE TOO MISGUIDED BY IT.

BUT WE CAN NOT BLAME THE INTERNET AS WHOLE AS WE AS PARENTS HAVE THE

RESPONSIBILITY TO CHECK THEM AT EVERY STEP , WHICH WE AVOID OR SOME

TIME IGNORE AND BECAUSE OF THIS OUR KIDS ONLY SUFFER. WE AS PARENTS NEED

TO GUIDE THEM IN THE SAME WAY AS IN EARLY TIMES OUR GRAND PARENTS USED

TO GUIDE THEM , BY TELLING STORIES AND BY PLAYING GAMES WITH THEM.

WE HAVE TO BE FRIENDLY WITH OUR TEEN AGE GIRLS AND BOYS , AS THEY ARE

GOING THROUGH DRASTIC CHANGES OF THE LIFE.

HORMONAL CHANGES :  THESE ARE THE BIG CHANGES WHICH EVERY PERSON OF

THE WORLD FEELS AT ONE TIME OF THE AGE. IN THIS WE FEEL CHANGES IN OUR

BODY , LIFE STYLE , PSYCHOLOGY. SOCIETY ETC. IN THIS WE FEEL THAT GIRLS

PARTS CHANGE FAST THEN BOYS , AS THE GIRLS ARE BEEN PREPARED FOR THE

MOTHER HOOD TOO BY THE GOD.

HERE IS SOME THING IMPORTANT , THESE ARE NORMAL CHANGES , BUT THESE 

WERE , IN EARLY TIMES ,GRAND MOTHER USED TO TELL HER GRAND DAUGHTER

VERY EASILY , BUT NOW A DAYS THIS IS THE DUTY OF THE MOTHER , AND THERE

SHOULD BE NO HESITATION . AS WE ARE TO PREPARE A LADY FOR THE FUTURE.

WE SHOULD TELL HER THAT NOW SHE IS BEING RECEIVING  THESE CHANGES FROM

THE NATURE AND EVERY LADY GETS THESE CHANGES.

THESE CHANGES START FROM NORMALLY AT THE AGE OF 12 OR 13 . IN GIRLS

HORMONES IN THE BODY ARE ACTIVATED BY THE NATURE. THESE HORMONES

IN GIRLS MAKE CHANGES LIKE , START OF MENSTRUATION CYCLE  IN THE GIRLS,

THERE BREAST GETS ENHANCED , THE BODY TAKES SHAPE , VOICE BECOMES

SWEET. THESE CHANGES GET THE STAND AT THE AGE OF 18 AS THESE CHANGES DO

SETTLE  BY THIS AGE. THIS IS THE AGE WHEN THE GIRL IS READY FOR THE MOTHER

HOOD. BUT ONLY PHYSICALLY  BUT NOT MENTALLY . YES MENTALLY SHE IS YET A

KID ONLY , AND THIS IS THE AGE WHEN YOU GET THE ATTRACTION FOR THE BOYS

BECAUSE BY THE NATURE YOU ARE MADE READY FOR THE MOTHER HOOD.

THE THE GIRLS NEED TO BE TAUGHT THAT IT IS NORMAL DO NOT TAKE IT OTHER

WISE AS EVERY GIRL IS GOING THROUGH THESE CHANGES.

THE CHANGES IN THE BOYS START AT THE AGE OF 14 OR 15 AND GET SETTLED BY 

21.

TN THESE CHANGES THEY FEEL THE BODY SHAPE TO BE STURDY. VOICE BECOMES

HEAVY. HAIR GROWTH ALL OVER THE BODY. SENSATION IN THE BODY ,

ATTRACTION FOR THE GIRLS , AS THEY ARE BEEN PREPARED FOR THE FATHERHOOD

BY THE NATURE. THEY FEEL DIFFERENCE IN THE NATURE, ATTITUDE , IN BOYS

LIFE EVERY THING CHANGES , THE SOCIETY CHANGES FOR THEM AND STARTS

EXPECTING MANY THINGS FROM THEM . ALL THESE THINGS NEED TO BE TAUGHT

TO THEM BY THEIR FATHER. BECAUSE GRAND FATHER IS NOT THERE WITH THEM

TEACH THEM EVERY THING EASILY , NOW THIS IS FATHERS DUTY TO TELL THEM

EVERY THING ABOUT THEIR THEIR CHANGES IN MENTALITY AND SOCIETY.

SEX PROBLEMS:

THIS IS NORMAL AS BECAUSE OF THE CHANGES ARE DUE TO HORMONES , SO THAT

THEY FEEL THIS ENXEITY  IN THEIR BODY , THIS SETTLES  DOWN AT THE AGE OF

21 IN THE BOYS AND 18 IN THE GIRLS . IN NORMAL LANGUAGE WE CALL IT HOSH

SAMBHALNA. TILL THIS AGE IN TODAY'S TIME THE KIDS HAVE DONE MANY THINGS,

AS SEX RELATION , ABORTION WHICH IS COMMON IN TEEN AGE TODAY. THIS IS

BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT AWARE OF THE THINGS WHICH THEY ARE FEELING.

WE AS THE PARENTS NEED TO GUIDE THEM AS WHAT IS ACTUALL MEANING OF

THESE CHANGES IN THE BODY, AND WHAT THE SOCIETY WANTS FROM THEM.

WE NEED TO TEACH THEM THE REAL MEANING OF THE CHANGES AND HOW TO

CONTROLL THE EMOTIONS WHICH THEY ARE FEELING. THE GOOD AND THE BAD

OF THE LIFE DUE TO THESE CHANGES.

BIGDA HUA OR BIGDI HUI.

SOME TIMES WE SEE THAT SOME BOYS OR THE GIRLS ARE GIVEN THE TABOO OF

BIGDA HUA OR BIGDI HUI. THIS IS WRONG , BECAUSE WE ARE UN AWARE OF THE

ACTUALL THING , AS WE ALL KNOW THAT THE CHANGES IN OUR BODY ARE DUE

TO THE HORMONAL CHANGES, IN THE BODY, AT THE SAME TIME , SOME BOY'S OR

SOME GIRLS HAVE THE THE HORMONAL FLOW VERY HEAVY , WHICH IS ABNORMAL

IN THE HUMAN BODY , IN THIS CASE THE BOY OR THE GIRL ARE UNABLE TO

CONTROLL THE FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS THAT THEY ARE FEELING , SO BECAUSE

OF THIS THEY DO SEX RELATION AT VERY EARLY AGE OR THEY ARE MORE

ATTRACTED FOR THE OPPOSITE SEX THEN NORMAL . THEY ARE CALLED BIGDA HUA

THIS IS A DISEASE AND IT IS CURED BY THE SEXOLOGIST .

NOW IN TODAY STAND THE MOTHER AND THE FATHER BOTH ARE EDUCATED .

SO IT BECOMES MORE THAN A DUTY FOR THEM TO GUIDE THE KID BETTER, AND IF

THEY FEEL LIKE THIS THEN THEY NEED TO TAKE THE KID TO THE DOCTOR AND GET

CURED.

BECAUSE OUR SOCIETY YET DOES NOT EXPECT THE GIRL AND BOY TO HAVE SEX

BEFORE REGULAR WEDDING.



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