Now a day's it is become a big problem in india . This needs to be solved , as soon as possible .
Today girl do not want to live with their in laws why ? because they think that they are unable to
enjoy there life , is it true , no it is not . they can live their life at ease , as now the people are
changing they treat bahu as beti only. they take her care like their own daughter.
yes their are many unsocial elements too in the society but they are in small quantity . we all are
aware of that second thing is the brought up of the girl and boy today , that makes a great role for this
give the boys and the girls different type of brought up. we parents need to teach them that ,
what is the importance of wedding , for their health . their physical fitness , this is because , they do
want responsibility , as wedding begins with that only.
that is why the live in culture is flamboyant these days. which is actually unhealthy for the girls and
boys both. in this they live with one person , but are they sure , that if that person has not lived with
any one before you , and what gauranti that will not live with any one after you.
this harms your health for the whole life.
ONE thing came in mind yesterday , while reading news paper , that is , are the girls' of this era
stupid or what why are they running after boy's like that , how can they like or love any one who is
standing on the street. are they crazy. or take their life to be nothing. this thing surely can not be
by parents , as no parents can ever teach the girl or the boy to go and lie with any one. no.
now days live in is attracting the girls and the guys why , because they just enjoy there life for
nothing . and no boundation of culture no in laws , just they two no one else to be burden in the life.
but if we give a second thought on it , that is now a days every girl is working and they have there
jobs with tight schedule and they normally live with there husband only , then what are they not
happy with there life , yes they are they are actually enjoying there life . they just avoid the small
tensions of life which is there every now and then. in spite of this they enjoy there life.
we can not say that every girl or every boy is good or every husband and wife is good , but can any
one say that every girl friend or boy friend is good. no but can be , so i just say that to avoid trivial
problems of life just do not play with your life.
now the important part , as the court has too given the verdict as if you live as in live in , then the
society will treat you as husband and wife only but legally you do not have any status , as you are
not in any type of bond. but in case you have baby then you naturally become husband and wife
because you can not leave that kid on roads , that kid is your responsibility as you only brought
the kid in life . so better go for wedding for the same . and enjoy life like any thing,
we actually do not under stand that where is the love gone from the society , it is flying high ,as
today no one is in love every one is in lust, they just want be hugged , but the emotions are not
there, they just want to ly down and have it , it is not love it is mere attraction which goes by the age.
love does not go any where , as if you are in love every one can see this in your life they can feel
your love and every one lives your love life they give you many blessings to keep your love life
long as your age , but i doubt any one gives you blessings to live your lust life, no one do appriciate
it .
kindly think twice before you enter in live in relationship.
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