SECTION 13 B DIVORCE BY MUTUAL CONCERN

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THIS SECTION IS VERY IMPORTANT , AS THIS GIVES MORE FREEDOM TO THE

HUSBAND AND WIFE , TO LEAVE EACH OTHER EASILY , FROM THE BOND OF

WEDDING.  IN THIS HUSBAND AND WIFE BOTH AGREE TO LEAVE EACH OTHER  WITH

OUT ANY PRESSURE , AND BOTH GO TO COURT AND APPLY FOR THE DIVORCE,

MUTUALLY.

IF THE HUSBAND AND WIFE DO NOT WANT TO LIVE TOGETHER  WITH EACH OTHER

ANY MORE THEN THEY CAN DECIDE THIS THEN THEY CAN GO TO COURT  FOR

THIS. IN THIS THE COURT GIVES THEM THE TIME OF 6 MONTHS THAT IS JUST FOR

RECONCILE  THE PROBLEM IF POSSIBLE THEN AFTER 6 MONTHS TOO , IF BOTH

THE SPOUSE ARE READY FOR THE DIVORCE , THEN THE COURT GRANT THEM

DIVORCE AFTER 6 MONTHS THAT IS SECOND MOTION, AND THEY ARE FREE FROM

CONDITION , THEN THEY ARE FREE TO GET REMARRIED .

ONLY THING IS THIS AS IF THE WIFE IS NOT EARNING MEMBER THEN SHE WILL ASK

OR SHE MAY ASK FOR THE ALOMONY , THIS CAN BE GIVEN MONTHLY OR LUMPSUM.

THIS THE FASTEST AND EASIEST WAY FOR DIVORCE.

IN THIS THERE IS LESS STRESS , AND SPEEDY WORK.

TEEN AGE PROBLEMS

GOOD DAY , IN LIFE THERE ARE COMING DRASTIC CHANGES ,WHICH WE DID NOT

EVER EXPECTED . THE LIFE IS BECOMING UN EASY DAY BY  DAY. AS BECAUSE OUR

TEEN AGE ESPECIALLY THE TEEN AGE YOUTH OF THE VILLAGE ARE MISGUIDED BY

TODAY'S WORLD'S INTERNET CHANGES , THEY KNOW HIE TO USE IT BUT YET THEY

DO NOT KNOW THAT HOW TO BE GUIDED BY IT ,

SOME WHERE OUR CITY KIDS ARE TOO MISGUIDED BY IT.

BUT WE CAN NOT BLAME THE INTERNET AS WHOLE AS WE AS PARENTS HAVE THE

RESPONSIBILITY TO CHECK THEM AT EVERY STEP , WHICH WE AVOID OR SOME

TIME IGNORE AND BECAUSE OF THIS OUR KIDS ONLY SUFFER. WE AS PARENTS NEED

TO GUIDE THEM IN THE SAME WAY AS IN EARLY TIMES OUR GRAND PARENTS USED

TO GUIDE THEM , BY TELLING STORIES AND BY PLAYING GAMES WITH THEM.

WE HAVE TO BE FRIENDLY WITH OUR TEEN AGE GIRLS AND BOYS , AS THEY ARE

GOING THROUGH DRASTIC CHANGES OF THE LIFE.

HORMONAL CHANGES :  THESE ARE THE BIG CHANGES WHICH EVERY PERSON OF

THE WORLD FEELS AT ONE TIME OF THE AGE. IN THIS WE FEEL CHANGES IN OUR

BODY , LIFE STYLE , PSYCHOLOGY. SOCIETY ETC. IN THIS WE FEEL THAT GIRLS

PARTS CHANGE FAST THEN BOYS , AS THE GIRLS ARE BEEN PREPARED FOR THE

MOTHER HOOD TOO BY THE GOD.

HERE IS SOME THING IMPORTANT , THESE ARE NORMAL CHANGES , BUT THESE 

WERE , IN EARLY TIMES ,GRAND MOTHER USED TO TELL HER GRAND DAUGHTER

VERY EASILY , BUT NOW A DAYS THIS IS THE DUTY OF THE MOTHER , AND THERE

SHOULD BE NO HESITATION . AS WE ARE TO PREPARE A LADY FOR THE FUTURE.

WE SHOULD TELL HER THAT NOW SHE IS BEING RECEIVING  THESE CHANGES FROM

THE NATURE AND EVERY LADY GETS THESE CHANGES.

THESE CHANGES START FROM NORMALLY AT THE AGE OF 12 OR 13 . IN GIRLS

HORMONES IN THE BODY ARE ACTIVATED BY THE NATURE. THESE HORMONES

IN GIRLS MAKE CHANGES LIKE , START OF MENSTRUATION CYCLE  IN THE GIRLS,

THERE BREAST GETS ENHANCED , THE BODY TAKES SHAPE , VOICE BECOMES

SWEET. THESE CHANGES GET THE STAND AT THE AGE OF 18 AS THESE CHANGES DO

SETTLE  BY THIS AGE. THIS IS THE AGE WHEN THE GIRL IS READY FOR THE MOTHER

HOOD. BUT ONLY PHYSICALLY  BUT NOT MENTALLY . YES MENTALLY SHE IS YET A

KID ONLY , AND THIS IS THE AGE WHEN YOU GET THE ATTRACTION FOR THE BOYS

BECAUSE BY THE NATURE YOU ARE MADE READY FOR THE MOTHER HOOD.

THE THE GIRLS NEED TO BE TAUGHT THAT IT IS NORMAL DO NOT TAKE IT OTHER

WISE AS EVERY GIRL IS GOING THROUGH THESE CHANGES.

THE CHANGES IN THE BOYS START AT THE AGE OF 14 OR 15 AND GET SETTLED BY 

21.

TN THESE CHANGES THEY FEEL THE BODY SHAPE TO BE STURDY. VOICE BECOMES

HEAVY. HAIR GROWTH ALL OVER THE BODY. SENSATION IN THE BODY ,

ATTRACTION FOR THE GIRLS , AS THEY ARE BEEN PREPARED FOR THE FATHERHOOD

BY THE NATURE. THEY FEEL DIFFERENCE IN THE NATURE, ATTITUDE , IN BOYS

LIFE EVERY THING CHANGES , THE SOCIETY CHANGES FOR THEM AND STARTS

EXPECTING MANY THINGS FROM THEM . ALL THESE THINGS NEED TO BE TAUGHT

TO THEM BY THEIR FATHER. BECAUSE GRAND FATHER IS NOT THERE WITH THEM

TEACH THEM EVERY THING EASILY , NOW THIS IS FATHERS DUTY TO TELL THEM

EVERY THING ABOUT THEIR THEIR CHANGES IN MENTALITY AND SOCIETY.

SEX PROBLEMS:

THIS IS NORMAL AS BECAUSE OF THE CHANGES ARE DUE TO HORMONES , SO THAT

THEY FEEL THIS ENXEITY  IN THEIR BODY , THIS SETTLES  DOWN AT THE AGE OF

21 IN THE BOYS AND 18 IN THE GIRLS . IN NORMAL LANGUAGE WE CALL IT HOSH

SAMBHALNA. TILL THIS AGE IN TODAY'S TIME THE KIDS HAVE DONE MANY THINGS,

AS SEX RELATION , ABORTION WHICH IS COMMON IN TEEN AGE TODAY. THIS IS

BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT AWARE OF THE THINGS WHICH THEY ARE FEELING.

WE AS THE PARENTS NEED TO GUIDE THEM AS WHAT IS ACTUALL MEANING OF

THESE CHANGES IN THE BODY, AND WHAT THE SOCIETY WANTS FROM THEM.

WE NEED TO TEACH THEM THE REAL MEANING OF THE CHANGES AND HOW TO

CONTROLL THE EMOTIONS WHICH THEY ARE FEELING. THE GOOD AND THE BAD

OF THE LIFE DUE TO THESE CHANGES.

BIGDA HUA OR BIGDI HUI.

SOME TIMES WE SEE THAT SOME BOYS OR THE GIRLS ARE GIVEN THE TABOO OF

BIGDA HUA OR BIGDI HUI. THIS IS WRONG , BECAUSE WE ARE UN AWARE OF THE

ACTUALL THING , AS WE ALL KNOW THAT THE CHANGES IN OUR BODY ARE DUE

TO THE HORMONAL CHANGES, IN THE BODY, AT THE SAME TIME , SOME BOY'S OR

SOME GIRLS HAVE THE THE HORMONAL FLOW VERY HEAVY , WHICH IS ABNORMAL

IN THE HUMAN BODY , IN THIS CASE THE BOY OR THE GIRL ARE UNABLE TO

CONTROLL THE FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS THAT THEY ARE FEELING , SO BECAUSE

OF THIS THEY DO SEX RELATION AT VERY EARLY AGE OR THEY ARE MORE

ATTRACTED FOR THE OPPOSITE SEX THEN NORMAL . THEY ARE CALLED BIGDA HUA

THIS IS A DISEASE AND IT IS CURED BY THE SEXOLOGIST .

NOW IN TODAY STAND THE MOTHER AND THE FATHER BOTH ARE EDUCATED .

SO IT BECOMES MORE THAN A DUTY FOR THEM TO GUIDE THE KID BETTER, AND IF

THEY FEEL LIKE THIS THEN THEY NEED TO TAKE THE KID TO THE DOCTOR AND GET

CURED.

BECAUSE OUR SOCIETY YET DOES NOT EXPECT THE GIRL AND BOY TO HAVE SEX

BEFORE REGULAR WEDDING.



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WHAT ABOUT THE AGED PERSON

TODAY THE LIFE OF OLD AGE HAS BECOME MISERABLE. THIS IS BECAUSE THE 

TIME AND THE GENERATION IS RUNNING FAST AND THE ELDER GENERATION IS

SOME WHAT LACKING TO CATCH THEM . SO THE GAP OF THOUGHT PROCESS IS

BECOMING WIDER AND WIDER , DAY BY DAY.

IN INDIA AND MANY COUNTRY LIKE INDIA , WHERE WE REAR OUR KIDS , ONLY

WITH THIS EXPECTATION THAT THEY WILL LOOK AFTER US IN OUR OLD AGE

THIS PROBLEM OS MORE. BECAUSE WE WANT OUR KIDS TO BE AROUND US WHEN

WE WANT , AND THIS THING SOME TIMES BECOMES A BOUNDATION FOR THEM.

BECAUSE THEY DO NOT WANT THIS EVERY TIME , WE WANT THAT EVERY TIME

SMALL THINGS SHOULD BE CELEBRATED BY THEM , BUT THE KIDS WANT TO

ENJOY LIFE ACCORDING TO THEM . THIS IS A BIG DIFFERENCE OF THOUGHT

PROCESS.

TODAY LIFE THINKS THAT THIS HAS TO BE CHANGED, BECAUSE THE KIDS WANT

TO LIVE THERE LIFE AS THEY WANT , NO INTERFERENCE IN THE LIFE OF ANY TYPE.

THIS MAKES THE LIFE OF THE AGED PERSON MISERABLE , BECAUSE OF THE NATURE

THAT THEY EXPECT, BUT THIS NATURE NEEDS TO BE CHANGED NOW.

AS DAUGHTER YOU NEED TO KEEP AWAY , THE SON DOES NOT WANT THE PARENTS

TO BE WITH HIM. AS THEN HE HAS TO TAKE THEIR CARE, AND THIS BECOMES A

BURDEN FOR HIM.

FOR THIS THEY BLINDLY SEND THEIR PERENTS TO ROAM ON ROADS , BECAUSE IN

INDIA YET THERE ARE NO PROPER OLD AGE HOMES TO KEEP THESE PEOPLE. FOR

EXAMPLE WE ALL KNOW THAT WIDOWS ROAM AROUND IN PUSHKAR , BANARAS ,

ANY MANY OTHER PLACES LIKE THIS , BUT WHAT IS ABOUT THEIR LIVING , AS

A PERSON NEEDS AT LEAST BASIC THINGS IN LIFE , LIKE FOOD ANS SHELTER.

BUT UNFORTUNATELY  THEY DO NOT GET IT , WHO IS RESPONSIBLE .NO ONE . ?

SOME ONE WOULD COME AND FEED THEM ONCE A WHILE THEN AFTER THAT ?

SO THIS NEEDS TO BE DONE ON GREATER SCALE . AS THIS THING WILL GO ON.

NO ONE CAN STOP THIS, AS WE ARE NOW INSPIRED BY WESTERN CULTURE . AS IN

AMERICA PEOPLE LEAD THEIR OWN LIFE THEY DO NOT EXPECT ANY THING FROM

THEIR KIDS ANY TIME , BUT IT IS THE SAME VISE VERSA , THAT THE KIDS DO NOT

EXPECT FROM THEM ANY THING.

THIS THING NEEDS TO BE ENTER IN INDIAN LIFE TOO , IF WE WANT TO SAVE THE 

ELDERS IN INDIA . OTHER WISE MANY WILL DIE , AND NO ONE WILL BE 

RESPONSIBLE  FOR THIS. WE ARE STRANGE PERSONS , AS WE DO NOT HAVE TIME

FOR OUR PARENTS BUT WE CAN SPEND TIME WITH OTHER PERSONS PARENTS . THIS

IS ALSO GOOD AT LEAST SOME ONE IS THERE .

BUT THERE NEEDS TO BE A PROPER SOLUTION AND THAT IS OLD AGE HOMES FOR

THE OLD PERSONS, THAT IS TO BE DONE. AND THIS SHOULD BE DONE AS SOON AS 

POSSIBLE SO THAT AT LEAST THEY ARE FED PROPERLY AND MEDICATED 

PROPERLY.




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