TODAY'S CULTURE AND FAMILY BOND
TODAY CULTURE IS DEMANDING NUCLEAR FAMILY , BECAUSE , THE FAST
LIFE . AND IT SHOULD BE THERE ,AS BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE ,
WORKING , SO THAT THEY TOO NEED TO HAVE TIME FOR EACH OTHER.
AND IN JOINT FAMILY THEY DO NOT HAVE THAT TIME AS MANY
EXPECTATIONS ARE THERE IN THE FAMILY, SO THAT PERSONAL LIFE
IS DISTURBED , MANY TIMES DESTROYED. SO IT IS BETTER TO GO FOR
NUCLEAR FAMILY .
BUT ON OTHER HAND , WHAT ABOUT THE PARENTS , A BIG QUESTION.
THE ANSWER IS THAT , THERE NEEDS TO BE OLD AGE HOME TO KEEP
THE ELDERS CARE PROPERLY, SO THAT THEY DO NOT MISS THE KIDS. AS
WE INDIAN'S YET ARE EMOTIONAL FELLOW , AND FOR THIS WE ARE
SOME WHAT RIGID , THIS IS ONLY REASON , AS WHY WE WANT FAMILY.
BUT IT NEEDS TO BE CHANGED NOW , AND THE OLDER PERSON , NEED TO
STAY AWAY AS IN FOREIGN COUNTRY THEY DO . BUT KIDS NEED TO BE
IN CONTACT WITH THEM. IN TODAY'S LIFE THE GOVERNMENT NEEDS TO WORK
ON THIS FACTOR AS IN INDIA TOO THERE SHOULD BE OLD AGE HOMES AS TODAY A
BAHU IS WORKING TOO , AND AS SHE RETURNS HOME SHE CAN NOT REST A BIT
BECAUSE SHE HAS TO DO FIRST THE HOUSE HOLD WORK THEN ONLY SHE CAN
THINK OF HER SELF. BUT THIS IS NOT GOOD FOR HER HEALTH , IN MANY HOMES
THE BAHU IS TREATED AS BETI BUT THEN TOO HER WORK IS THE SAME , AS IF SHE
WANTS TO REST , SHE CAN NOT , AS THERE IS LOT OF WORK THAT SHE IS SUPPOSED
TO PERFORM.
THAT IS WHY NOW INDIA TOO NEEDS OLD AGE HOMES SO THAT PARENTS ARE
KEPT THERE AND LOOKED AFTER BY THE NURSE AND ATTENDENT , AS IN THE
FORIEGN COUNTRY THEY DO.
AND THE OTHER CERTAIN THINGS ARE THERE TOO , THAT IS INDIDA'S
EXPECTATION FRO THE BAHU , THAT LEVEL IS TOO HIGH YET , THAT IS TO BE AGAIN
THE MATTER WHICH TO BE CONTROLLED . IT IS A BIG POINT THAT TODAY GRAND
PARENTS ARE NOT INTERESTED IN TAKING CARE OF THE GRAND KIDS . SO THAT IN
THE PRESENCE OF GRAND PARENTS THE KIDS FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE, SO THEY
SOME TIMES OPENLY ASK THEIR PARENTS , THAT WHY CAN'T DADA AND DADI
LIVE IN OLD AGE HOME. WHY WE SEND THEM THERE. SO THAT THE PARENTS START
A SEARCH FOR THE OLD AGE HOME FOR THE PARENTS. ONLY BECAUSE THE KIDS
WANT TO LIVE THERE LIFE ANS THE HUSBAND AND WIFE TOO WANT TOO ENJOY
THERE LIFE .
SO THIS IS CLEAR THAT TODAY IS THE TIME FOR NUCLEAR FAMILY AS EVERY
PERSON WANT'S TO LIVE THERE LIFE AND ENJOY IT WITH OUT BURDEN SO THAT
NOW IN INDIA TOO THERE IS A NEED OF OLD AGE HOMES TOO KEEP THE ELDERS
ELDERS THERE.
HERE WE NEED TO THINK TO TAKE UP THE PROCESS FOR THE NUCLEAR FAMILY
PROGRAM.
for any discussion kindly contact : nihitamathur@gmail.com
TODAY CULTURE IS DEMANDING NUCLEAR FAMILY , BECAUSE , THE FAST
LIFE . AND IT SHOULD BE THERE ,AS BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE ,
WORKING , SO THAT THEY TOO NEED TO HAVE TIME FOR EACH OTHER.
AND IN JOINT FAMILY THEY DO NOT HAVE THAT TIME AS MANY
EXPECTATIONS ARE THERE IN THE FAMILY, SO THAT PERSONAL LIFE
IS DISTURBED , MANY TIMES DESTROYED. SO IT IS BETTER TO GO FOR
NUCLEAR FAMILY .
BUT ON OTHER HAND , WHAT ABOUT THE PARENTS , A BIG QUESTION.
THE ANSWER IS THAT , THERE NEEDS TO BE OLD AGE HOME TO KEEP
THE ELDERS CARE PROPERLY, SO THAT THEY DO NOT MISS THE KIDS. AS
WE INDIAN'S YET ARE EMOTIONAL FELLOW , AND FOR THIS WE ARE
SOME WHAT RIGID , THIS IS ONLY REASON , AS WHY WE WANT FAMILY.
BUT IT NEEDS TO BE CHANGED NOW , AND THE OLDER PERSON , NEED TO
STAY AWAY AS IN FOREIGN COUNTRY THEY DO . BUT KIDS NEED TO BE
IN CONTACT WITH THEM. IN TODAY'S LIFE THE GOVERNMENT NEEDS TO WORK
ON THIS FACTOR AS IN INDIA TOO THERE SHOULD BE OLD AGE HOMES AS TODAY A
BAHU IS WORKING TOO , AND AS SHE RETURNS HOME SHE CAN NOT REST A BIT
BECAUSE SHE HAS TO DO FIRST THE HOUSE HOLD WORK THEN ONLY SHE CAN
THINK OF HER SELF. BUT THIS IS NOT GOOD FOR HER HEALTH , IN MANY HOMES
THE BAHU IS TREATED AS BETI BUT THEN TOO HER WORK IS THE SAME , AS IF SHE
WANTS TO REST , SHE CAN NOT , AS THERE IS LOT OF WORK THAT SHE IS SUPPOSED
TO PERFORM.
THAT IS WHY NOW INDIA TOO NEEDS OLD AGE HOMES SO THAT PARENTS ARE
KEPT THERE AND LOOKED AFTER BY THE NURSE AND ATTENDENT , AS IN THE
FORIEGN COUNTRY THEY DO.
AND THE OTHER CERTAIN THINGS ARE THERE TOO , THAT IS INDIDA'S
EXPECTATION FRO THE BAHU , THAT LEVEL IS TOO HIGH YET , THAT IS TO BE AGAIN
THE MATTER WHICH TO BE CONTROLLED . IT IS A BIG POINT THAT TODAY GRAND
PARENTS ARE NOT INTERESTED IN TAKING CARE OF THE GRAND KIDS . SO THAT IN
THE PRESENCE OF GRAND PARENTS THE KIDS FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE, SO THEY
SOME TIMES OPENLY ASK THEIR PARENTS , THAT WHY CAN'T DADA AND DADI
LIVE IN OLD AGE HOME. WHY WE SEND THEM THERE. SO THAT THE PARENTS START
A SEARCH FOR THE OLD AGE HOME FOR THE PARENTS. ONLY BECAUSE THE KIDS
WANT TO LIVE THERE LIFE ANS THE HUSBAND AND WIFE TOO WANT TOO ENJOY
THERE LIFE .
SO THIS IS CLEAR THAT TODAY IS THE TIME FOR NUCLEAR FAMILY AS EVERY
PERSON WANT'S TO LIVE THERE LIFE AND ENJOY IT WITH OUT BURDEN SO THAT
NOW IN INDIA TOO THERE IS A NEED OF OLD AGE HOMES TOO KEEP THE ELDERS
ELDERS THERE.
HERE WE NEED TO THINK TO TAKE UP THE PROCESS FOR THE NUCLEAR FAMILY
PROGRAM.
for any discussion kindly contact : nihitamathur@gmail.com
